Singleedition.com explores the old age question; "Why do men like dirty girls when they have a hot, successful, smart one at home?"
In our society it is not secret that men have a pattern of cheating with "dirty" girls. From Bill Clinton to Sandra Bullock's ex Jesse James, men are attracted to women who are not much like their wives at home. Singleedition.com explores this much talked about topic.
It’s an Easy Game of Predator and Prey: The “thrill of the chase” is a stimulant during the courting stages of any relationship, but those feelings are bound to dissipate once the chase is over. As a result, many turn elsewhere to achieve the same sexual high, and for those in a committed relationship precision and timing are of the essence. To avoid getting caught many men learn to sniff out targets who are easiest to win over, most daring and willing to facilitate getting the “the job” done, which often leads them to the bad girls who are willing to break social and other rules.
Problems with Partners on Pedestals: No matter how sexy she may be, a woman cannot be perceived (positively) as a whore in the bedroom if her man only sees her as a cook in the kitchen or the mother of his children. Therein lays the problem, as couples seek to run the full range of emotions and physicality associated with making sweet love to having tawdry sex. When someone is placed on a pedestal, whether by their peers, society or their partner, it can be a mental mind mess for the leading man in their life. In Freudian psychoanalysis, this is the classic Madonna complex and for men who struggle with it this makes it nearly impossible to get down and dirty with someone they love. In these scenarios, the “bad” or “dirty” girl often makes a cameo appearance and is only there to satisfy sexual needs in place of a long-term loved one.
Catch Me if You Can Mindset: Some people get off on the thrill of doing acts that are dirty and deceitful simply because they enjoy living on the edge. And as if cheating were not enough, there are certain types of power players whose feelings becomes even more intensified when the objects they desire are ones that have been forbidden. For some that may be a boss or ex of a best friend, but in many cases it’s the girl (or guy) they could not bring home to Mom which they find the most tempting.
Like Attracts Like: It’s simple: men can be naughty and want to be with women who can behave the same way that they do. And if she looks like a player and acts like one, then chances are she is one.
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