Is it hot or not when a woman makes the first move? We asked guys from all walks of life what they think.
“Absolutely. Why not? Aren’t we supposed to be equal?” Consultant, 25 “It’s more up to the guy. I think it’s the man’s role, but since a lot of guys don’t have the nuts, it’s definitely okay if she does.” Product Salesman, 30 “Yes. It shows a lot of confidence and security and that’s really sexy.” HR Coordinator, 23 “The guy should know to [make the first move] because he’s been paying attention to her all night.” Bartender, 22 “She shouldn’t need to, but I’m pleasantly surprised if she does.” Marketing Manager, 25 “Yes, because if guys make the first move and it’s not wanted there are more repercussions legally.” Grad student, 24 “I don’t think the girl should. I guess I’m just a fan of old movies and chivalry.” Actor, 23 “I would love if she did. It just makes it easier because I know what I’m dealing with and it’s for me to decide.” Software Salesman, 41 “Yes. It should be 50/50. I like to know that there’s some interest on the other side.” Business Student, 28 “It would be nice. It would make our lives a lot easier.” Photographer, 27
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3 Comments
Anonymous
May 29, 2009
Definately should make the first move, just dont seem over agressive,as some guys sees this as a turn off.
Jahidas
October 21, 2009
It seems like the men are pretty much undecided about who should make the first move. I think it proves that we do live in equality.
I think it goes a bit further then that. I think both genders should do it, whoever usually does it means they are confident with themselves.